When Holy Cow! Consulting began its work many years ago we were offering something different than other church consulting – data that reflected the thoughts, feelings, and health of their church. It was a step beyond because it eliminated the guesswork out of the process and provided reliable methods for church leadership to make informed decisions. As we continued to grow, we were able to benchmark our data with other churches in the region, then the state, and then across the nation. This expanded what we could offer, it became much more than just raw data but an opportunity to know what the comparative data looked like. We could determine what our church experience needed to look like and what we could focus on first to make that happen.

And time flew and we are still here! Over the last 28 years, Holy Cow! Consulting has worked with close to 7,000 congregations across the United States and Canada, with over 2 million individual responses. We help congregations use a databased approach to determine needed strategic steps and what clergy would be good a fit for those needs. What we find years later, and with an even more robust data set, is that this work could not be timely.  As congregations experience shorter clergy tenures and more clergy transitions, financial concerns, and smaller attendance, it is even more important for them to reexamine their purpose and vision of their future. It is crucial for congregations not only to be prepared to deal with any congregational season but also to be skilled at navigating those changes.  

We are always reminded in our work that congregations are allowed to and should have hope.  If there is a clear shift from the scarcity mindset of what congregations don’t have to an intentional mindset of the resources that they do have and how they can be best used, then congregations can become healthy, nimble organizations with ownership over where God is calling them to be.  

We are grateful for all the congregations that have partnered with us over the years. It is a blessing to see all of God’s people doing the work. And, for those we have not met yet, we look forward to the work ahead.

Until then, as my grandpa used to say, we will be here until the cows come home.

Emily Swanson

Owner and President of Holy Cow! Consulting

by Emily Swanson, Holy Cow! Consulting

I am currently working with a church in Indiana, and we are halfway through a strategic planning process. My first meeting with them in person was to review their Congregation Assessment Tool results. It was early January and extremely snowy. We were settling into writing 2025 on all the things – from agendas to signatures. In the middle of the meeting, the group shared that at the beginning of the year, each person in the congregation gets a star with a word. I stated that I loved that idea, so at the break, one of the women grabbed the basket for me to blind draw my word. My paper star said “assurance.”

My formal training is not in theology but in a completely different world so, in my understanding of the word “assurance,” I think of conveying property titles which sounds incredibly boring. But Meriam-Webster also defines the word as “being of a certain mind, something that inspires confidence, without self-doubt or uncertainty.” The purpose of this word on my star has felt, perhaps ironically, uncertain.

I often hear that we are in an unprecedented time, and I think, “well, every time we live in is unprecedented if you really think about it.” But as I listen to people around in the country in their churches, I believe unprecedented means we are uncertain and we feel like there is so much to worry about, know about, fix, or do we don’t know where to start. It is overwhelming and deflating.

In 1989, Stephen Covey published his book “The 7 Habits of Highly Affective People.” In the book, he developed the “Circle of Control,” originally a part of Stoic philosophy. This concept contains three circles. The outer layer is the circle of concern, which includes what we worry about, from weather to politics to global events, but ultimately have no control over. The next layer is a circle of influence, which we have some influence or sway over but cannot decide the ultimate outcome. This can be our relationships, final business decisions, or what our kids do when they leave our homes. The middle circle is the circle of control. This circle contains the things we have complete control over.

The concept is based on the understanding that, in the Western world, we all believe we have a lot of control. But in fact, we do not. This perception disconnect leads to anxiety, stress and decreased effectiveness or burn-out. The Circle of Control is not designed to make us feel inept or prove that our perceptions are ridiculous. Instead, it is designed to give us a way to have a proactive focus. It allows us to think about where we can expand our circle influence so that we can move out of the Circle of Concern with clarity and direction. We can use this process in our personal lives but also in our work, our advocacy, our church planning, and other seasons of change.

Here is how to use this process:

1. Begin by making a list of all of your concerns in the outermost circle. This list includes things that our external in nature and that we worry about but have no control or influence over. Your list of concerns might look something like this: severe weather, environmental issues, road construction, church finances, national trends in church, generation gaps.
2. In the innermost circle, make a list of things you have control over from start to finish. This list might include actions you personally can take, how you treat others, what you wear, what you think about, or how you react.
3. Finally, in the middle circle, make a list of the things you have influence over. These are things that you can influence over but cannot control the outcome. These typically encompasses things like relationships, decision-making that you are a part of, communications plans, places where you can give feedback, outreach or ministries you can be a part of or do.
4. Once we finish our list in the circles process we need to ask these questions to determine the effective next steps:
   • Has anything worked before? For example if we as a church are experiencing a particular period of conflict examining where the church has been through conflict before and how it was resolved well can be helpful. We can also look at other situations in other churches that have been hard that have resulted in a stronger church.
   • What haven’t we tried? Often in the circle of concern we have a lot of things that feel completely out of our hands that leads to frustration. We need to think through these issues by digging a bit deeper. Is there anything we can influence within this realm? If your church is concerned about climate change -can your church start recycling or begin to recycle more? can it partner with a nonprofit that works in environmental safety? can your use of your property include more indigenous plants and use less toxic lawn care products? Once we start breaking bigger issues down into the parts we can influence we begin to feel that we are making change.
   • What if nothing works and this is outside of our control or influence, can we still do good work? The implicit answer here is always yes but we need to be ready to adapt to the current reality. A church that has diminished in size because the community size has decreased significantly might find themselves in this place. The question then becomes how can we create a meaningful legacy in our community that best serves God even if we are not here in 15 years?

This process begins the hard work of naming the things that feel daunting but refusing to feel the lasting effects of defeat and instead look at adaption and creative solutions.

And so I return to the word I drew for 2025 -“assurance.” This had a different connotation for me when this morning, I remembered the hymn that starts with “Blessed Assurance, Jesus is mine.” But I didn’t just remember it from church; I remembered my grandpa singing it in the house when I was young. And the phrase he would belt out from that song that keeps repeating in my head is, “This is my story, this is my song, praising my Savior all day long.” Because, if nothing else, I can control who I focus on in my day-to-day work and what that story is. What my story is. And so can our congregations.

“Blessed Assurance”

Blessed assurance, Jesus is mine
Oh, what a foretaste of glory divine
Heir of salvation, purchase of God
Born of his Spirit, washed in His blood

This is my story, this is my song
Praising my Savior all the day long
This is my story, this is my song
Praising my Savior all the day long

Perfect submission, perfect delight
Visions of rapture now burst on my sight
Angels descending bring from above
Echoes of mercy, whispers of love

This is my story, this is my song
Praising my Savior all the day long
This is my story, this is my song
Praising my Savior all the day long
Praising my Savior all the day long

Music by Phoebe Knapp, Song Lyrics by Fanny Crosby, Copyright 1873

If you missed our first post on regional associations please check it out here.

In this post we are going to discuss the first “C” to help regional associations (Episcopal Dioceses, Conferences, Synods, Presbyteries) move out of scarcity and tunnel vision and into slack mode, allowing for clarity of purpose and clear alignment. This first “C” is Clarity. There are a few contextual definitions of clarity but for our purposes we are looking at organizational clarity.

In Ann Latham’s book “The Power of Clarity” she writes: 

Clarity requires knowing, with specificity, what you are trying to accomplish, how and with whom, and with the ability to focus so you can be successful. Harnessing the power of clarity, does not just involve the way you communicate, it also involves the way you think and interact.

While this definition is business-focused in nature the same is true for regional associations. We must have this type of clarity to do what God is calling us to do as the church. 

The Landscape assessment allows responders to reflect on the work of their regional association. When over 40,000 people in the data base are asked where they would like their regional association leadership to put energy in the future, we see three consistent top priorities:

1. Take a leadership role with churches that are struggling
2. Equip clergy and other leaders in congregations with strategies to enable them to reach new members
3. Develop a discernment process to rethink how to be a vital church in their specific region. 

The mandate is resoundingly clear – congregations need help, resources, and wisdom. This type of work can only happen if the regional association has clarity around what needs accomplished and how we are going to get that done. And none of that clarity can occur without alignment.

The Why 

Over a decade ago, Simon Sinek wrote the book “Start with Why.” Sinek frames out his Golden Circle theory examining what inspires action and drives leadership success. The Golden Circle comprises three components: Why, How, and What. The Golden Circle helps any organization better understand why they do what they do. Most regional associations get mired in the “What” – the list of all the programming, committees to do tasks, and meeting agendas they have. Sometimes there is clarity around the “How” – what makes what we do unique and important. But the “Why” is often where we need clarity.

Over the years of running assessments and conducting listening sessions in regional associations across the country, one thing is very clear. Too frequently, even people who are very engaged in the work of the regional association cannot clearly name the why of its existence. If we can’t name the why for the existence of something we begin to question why it is needed. 

A regional association must be able to name clearly its purpose. It must be able to answer why should anyone, usually congregations it was built to support, care about the work of the regional association? So, the why has to answer the question why do we exist and what is our stated purpose.

It important to remember that creating a nebulous and overreaching “why” is not going to engage people or help staff know how to align their work. A regional association who shares that their purpose is to convert the world to Christ is not truly thinking about their why but is instead overreaching, and failing to acknowledge the top reasons that congregations even care about the work of the system. Perhaps even more concerning, this is also not a measurable why. How could a staff person determine if the work they are doing is converting the world without clear numbers of how many conversions, in how many places, within a set period of time? And is count data really what will engage the system? 

Clarity allows for a why that “taps into the part of the listener’s brain that influences behavior, making it a powerful tool for inspiring and motivating others.” How Great Leaders Inspire Action: Simon Sinek’s Golden Circle, July 2023, Meridan University MBA. For a regional association the why needs to examine why do we matter to the churches we serve and what do we need to do exceptionally well to do that work?

The What and How 

Once that clarity happens alignment is then created with the Why. And the question becomes, with each step, if the behavior exhibited in the work of the regional association was replicated in the churches we are serving would it move them toward or away from our purpose of creating healthy, vital congregations? 

With this clarity, the what and how center around the why so that we are not just doing work because it is on a checklist, we are evolving, adapting and remaining relevant. We can say yes when alignment is clear and no when it is not. Staff structures and committees continue to clarify their purpose so we can ensure the structures and assignments make sense for the work ahead. This is how we begin to diminish burn-out in our staff and committees and can look at gift discernment, having the right people in the right places. 

There is nothing simple about this. It is hard work. But it is work worth doing in this season for regional associations supporting congregations. This work creates a culture that renews the mind, empowers leaders, rewards collaboration, and is authentic. That is the type of culture that makes people want to engage and leads to the very thing God is calling us to be, transformed.

Romans 12:2: Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.